Bridal or Money

Supposing a great & happy month to look forward to but mind seems has not much of an excitement….
Decided to move off to get our bridal gowns package in Malaysia after a brief discussion as we really hope to cut down on expenses for our wedding due to the high cost in Singapore & also the strong currency exchange did help a lot.
Lots of planning & hunting in Johor areas as its relatively not a far distance to travel as the amount distance will be a great tiring & troublesome task if its gonna be too much of a trouble.
Finally managed to sign up with 1 of those bridal shops in Tun Ahminah, who had promises us with great experience of a lifetime & beautiful gowns but the high price was something that I wasn’t really expected. But since it’s the only shop that did give us the impression that if could provide us with the service worth the value we are paying for, we are most willing to try out. Its still relatively much cheaper in terms of dollars compared to what usual bridal shops in Singapore is able to provide me.
Money is such hard to earn nowadays thus to spend it wisely is so important that we must do to keep hold within the budget as neither of us are making big bucks or comes from a wealthy family.
~ tiring
Budgeting & bargaining & planning…. There seems to be thousand & 1 things being left out that we had yet think of & do…. When we are currently at the beginning stage of our wedding preparation….
Why can’t 2 living human beings simply get the ceremony done with a simple sit down dinner session with only the family & a vow in-front of the adults & elderly?
“Come on dear, it’s a once in a lifetime thingy… “ can’t imagine that its my future husband the person to console me on this & looking forwards to get these rituals & ceremony done when mostly it’s the wife-to-be so happily & looking forwards to get everything done to their expectation.
Alright… this just make it sounds as if I was so not into the wedding preparation & wedding rituals.
Is it me only that feels wedding is nothing more than wasting resource & time for something that is supposed to be so sacred & holy to be left alone with??? ………..